Monday, April 20, 2009

Thanks so much guys!

I love all of the mommy funk cures you all sent and you all have amazing ideas (that is probably why you are all rocking good moms!)  I decided to use them all and compile them together into this blog.  If anyone has an idea to add come back and comment on this post and I will continue to edit this one.  This is my own personal  mommy survival wiki! :)

1.) Try to plan ONE fun activity a day and then DON'T expect it to go perfectly. That way, when your kids watch TV for the rest of the day and make huge messes, you can still feel like you accomplished something with them.

2.)  If we go out to a park or just for a nice walk the sunshine and fresh air are good for everyone. BUT, in cases where you can't go outside- I let my kids pile up all the pillows and jump off the couch. They love it and think I'm fun and they are darn tired after 30 minutes of it.

3.)  I find myself getting the most frustrated with life and my kids when I can't get anything done. SO, I change my list- all I have to do today is play hi-ho cherry o and read to my kids....and if I do that-I did a good job. 

4.)  Know that you are not alone.

5.)  When we are feeling bored and grouchy we go to walmart and buy some new small toys, like crayons and coloring books, a board game, new t-shirts, or Pillsbury cookie dough to make cookies. 

6.)  One thing we do is go to Dairy Queen for ice cream, then drive around town till we are calmed down. Just getting out of the house for a few minutes seems to help...

7.)  STICK WITH IT--- ONE day, one hour at a time. Looking at the whole picture is just too overwhelming.

8.)  Be proud of the little accomplishments you can make in one day whether that be getting your teeth brushed, controlling your urge to beat your children, or whipping up some boxed mac and cheese.

9.)  Sometimes I get so caught up in what needs to be done around the house or yard or whatever, and forget that my little ones need me! We have had story time, me and my daughter every day, she dresses up like a princess and we read a princess story. It is something so simple and yet something she loves so much.

10.)  Laugh.  Even when you don't really want to. :)

11.)  I always need a break to get away from my mommy funk. Plan something fun for yourself or with your husband. You will have something to look forward to and you will be refreshed from a break away from kids.

12.) One word: TOBLERONE! :)

13.)  I don't know how I got out of my funks, it seemed sometimes like just one big 20 year funk!! But I'll tell you this -- seeing/hearing my grown kids talk and laugh and tell stories together is the most wonderful reward for all those fights and fits.

14.)  It helps to go out or have someone over (every day if at all possible). This solves the not wanting to get dressed thing I have going on sometimes.

15.)  Sometimes when we get in a funk and need to get away we go to La Posada and sit in the swing in the back and watch the trains go by.

16.)  Another place that we spend alot of time at is McDonalds when it is cold, the kids can play, eat a 99 cent cheeseburger and a 35 cent ice cream cone and they are happy!

17.)  Girls Night Out (because, well, see number 4!)

6 comments:

Michelle said...

Have a friend come up with a silly mantra for you to repeat. I know it sounds stupid but if you have the right mantra it will get you through anything. . .even a Bridezilla wedding. ;-)

Team Tausinga said...

LOVE IT......... thank you for your time....I think that it is a list we can all relate too.....you rock....

The Giles Files said...

Thanks! Needed those ideas.

Corri Havlicek said...

ALL great ideas Corie. Excellent idea for a blog post.

Criddle said...

Some great great ideas! I have been letting my kids take the cushions off my old couch in the tv room for the last month and play. It keeps them nicely occupied :) oh oh I have a tip. Make treats! Works miracles for me! TE HEHE

Susie and Josh said...

Corie your an awesome mom, and a great friend! Always remember that!